Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Recent Reads

Right now I'm reading....

Adopted For Life  by Russell Moore

And

Dare To Discipline by James Dobson.

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I am also reading lots and lots of blogs about adoption.
I'm trying to get a better up-close glimpse of what it looks like to adopt.
How it changes couples and families.
How siblings react.
The issues that need to be dealt with.
The emotions that come along with it.
The stories behind the adoptions.
The stories after the adoption.
The inspiration.
The beauty.
The need.

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In Women's Sunday School we are going through Beth Moore's study on Esther.
I am really enjoying it, it is challenging me on so many levels.
Did you know Esther was adopted? Both her parents died when she was still young. 
That isn't the point of the study but timely, right?

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I am a part of a group of moms who meet together twice a month and we are studying Bible Moms together.
Another good read.  And some great ladies.

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That is what I'm reading this month....What are you reading?
What do you recommend?
What is challenging or inspiring or entertaining you this month?

Any great must-read adoption blogs that you love?
Please share!


Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Some "Top 10's" For the Fun of it

Top 10 Things I miss about the States:

10. Driving! Reading/Understanding Street signs! And knowing our way around!
9. Panera Bread. Ruby Tuesdays. Caribou. Eddingtons. Chipotle. Noodles Inc. Fasikas. Macaroni Grill.
8. Ability to buy any grocery item you want at any time. Stores that have inventory and keep things stocked! If you live in the States I guarantee you don't realize what a blessing this is or how good you have it (I didn't!)
7. Libraries!!!!!
6. Cleanliness:  Clean Streets, clean buildings, clean air.
5. Convenience - being able to get around and know where to buy things we want/need
4. Understanding what is going on!You so take it for granted when you live in the States. Laugh. Out. Loud.
3. Bethlehem Baptist Church, what a blessing to so many!
2. Our Friends, former Small Group, former Co-Workers and Community!!
1. Our Family!!!!! Our Family!!! Our Family!!!


Top 10 Things I love about Korea:

10. The crazy adventure of it all, no two days look the same and you never know where the bus might take you or who is knocking on the door....
9. The open air market
8. Taking a giant leap of faith and watching the Lord work and provide
7. Being stretched and grown in new ways, seeing maturity happen
6. An endless number of new experiences awaiting and adventures to be had
5. Asian culture, people, places, sights and scenery (the mountains!!!)
4. Walking almost everywhere, so many places we would have driven to in the States that can so easily be walked to....it's good for us and it's fun.
3. Our Church here, Songtan Central Baptist Church
2. Less pressure, life is simpler here.  I really love that.  America is stressful, ya'll!
1. Our Church family and friends, our new community.

Oh and I really like the food....it's grown on me for sure.  NOM.

A New Page!

I have been thinking about our health a lot lately.  It has been on my mind as we have been sick more than usual the past ten weeks!  We just can't seem to stay healthy for very long, despite doing all I can think of to eat nutritiously and boost the vitamin C and probiotics on a daily basis.  We are finally all three back in good health at the same time the past few days and I find myself tempted to hole up in our house and try not to see anyone so we don't catch any more germs!  That isn't a very practical plan so my next idea was to blog and ask all of you to be in prayer for us that we would stay healthy!

Sickies

As I started doing that, I remembered something I meant to do a while back:  Create a page on our blog with specific prayer requests and ways you can be praying for us.  So tonight I added a page:  "Prayer Requests" along the top of this blog.  Check it out for some practical ways you can pray for us. I will try to update it semi-regularly or as new things come up.  We really appreciate your prayers and feel an increased need and urgency for them. Thank you for partnering with us through prayer!

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

What happened to January?

I guess February begins tomorrow (in Korea) so that begs the question, "what happened to January?!?"  Apparently a lot because I haven't blogged much!  Truth be told, I haven't taken many pictures either.

So what did January hold for us?  Let me look back over my calendar (thanks Grandma Hope!) and remember.... Steve ended 2011 on a ski trip with the youth group.



 He arrived home in time to change clothes, eat dinner with us (Side note: I made tacos, homemade tortillas, salsa, shredded pork and all! We - meaning I - was on a big high because we found cilantro in the market. Unless you've lived outside of the US you just can't appreciate what it is like to go to the store and not know what you will find there for dinner. Takes meal planning to a whole new level and it makes finding things really exciting!),


 and run off to our Church's combined English/Korean late night service. Caleb and I went to bed early and I woke up in the morning to a text message "kiss kiss" somewhere around midnight.  New Year's Day was a Sunday so we went to Church as usual and then had a small group ("Community Life Group" as our church calls it) party.  We had a new couple join us (Tim and Danielle, they have 2 girls and a baby on the way).

We also had a "late Christmas" party with the youth.  We decorated and had a fun time hanging out.



I made some revisions and changes in our Church Nursery (I'm not sure if I've mentioned that I took on the nursery for our church this past spring?) and that kept me busy the first part of January, along with recruiting volunteers and organizing the 2012 schedule.



The second week of January Steve left for a pastor's retreat.  Guess what they did? They went skiing! At the same resort he had gone to with the youth.  But he had a good time and enjoyed his time with Pastor Chapman.


If you haven't picked up on all our cheesy "peace" signs, Korea is big on the "peace" sign in pictures so all of us foreigners have picked up on it for a classic Korean look.



While he was gone, I had one of the girls from the youth group over and we baked hundreds of cookies (or so it felt) and had a good time bonding and digging into life together.



Steve and I went to see Sherlock Holmes in theater.  This was momentous because it was the first movie I had been to in theaters since I was 8 months pregnant with Caleb when we went to see The Blindside.  Almost 2 years exactly since I'd been to the movies with my sweetheart.  It was about time.  To our regret, Steve and I haven't been exactly good at dating since we moved to Korea.  In part it is because finding a free sitter isn't easy, in part because we haven't wanted to spend the extra money, in part because we are busy and in part because we haven't made it the priority we should. We are trying to work on it.


Gail and I started our Childbirth Education classes  that I  mentioned previously on weekends in January and planning/executing that has taken a good chunk of time up (especially on weekends!).

Our Logo

Caleb and I got really sick for a good week or so mid January (which I've also posted about) but was no fun at all.  We ended up missing the annual church sledding trip, which was a bummer.  It seems Steve might have it now, he has been yuckie the past few days.


We received a lot of oatmeal from family back home in our Christmas boxes (which we were thrilled about and have almost completely devoured, I've been savoring the last half a canister that we have left - the rest is gone).  Caleb especially enjoyed it, if you can't tell by his facial expression below


We've also done a lot of puzzles and books this month, he seems to really enjoy both - a lot.  Some of his favorites right now are "Giving my Heart to God," "The Berenstain Bear's Too Much Camping," "Dog and Bear," "Bee-Bim-Bop," "Cars," and the Bible story about Simeon and Anna.  Dad has also started reading to him from "Kingdom Dawn" before bed (when he is home to put him to bed). It's a chapter book with no pictures that we intended to bore him to sleep.  Turns out he recalls what dad read to him when he wakes up so he must be semi following it.  Either way, he loves when dad reads to him "Kingdom Dawn!" (said in an awed voice) and he is full of talking about going on "quests for mama."





Found him reading in the corner

We have also spent significant time watching high school basketball games.  It's been a lot of fun and something all 3 of us enjoy doing together.  Go ICS!  Go Osan! It's been a great way to connect with students and support the local schools.




This month I have been reading "Secrets of the Toddler Whisperer" by Tracy Hogg, "Heart and Hands Midwifery" (a textbook) and "1,000 Gifts" by Ann Voskamp.  Steve has been reading "Almost Christian" by Kendra Dean and "Stepping Up" by Dennis Rainey and we've been growing together in all sorts of ways!

The Lord continues to bring us back to the idea of adoption and it is heavy on our hearts right now.  We covet your prayers in this.  We don't wrestle with the idea lightly, knowing adoption journeys can be fraught with much joy and also much heartache.  We want to follow the Lord in faith and also have wisdom and discernment.

As we end 2011 and begin 2012, as January comes and goes, I am struck again with the quickly fleeting time we are given and how easily it passes.  One big area of my life I am working on this year is being intentional and purposeful with the time I am given - it is hard to do, given how many things (many of them GOOD!) clutter and fill our days and weeks.  But it is so easy to let the time slide right by and continue doing the "same old, same old."  Without intention, a week, a year, a decade can pass me up and what do I have to show for  it?  Is it something lasting or something trivial?  Is it lasting or passing?

Monday, January 30, 2012

Caleb's "Brudder"

Caleb informed us the other day, "I have a brudder."
"Oh really....who?"
C:  "Caillou, my bear. Caillou my brudder."



Have you met Katie Davis or David Platt?

Have you "met" Katie Davis or David Platt yet? If you haven't, they are worth checking out!  Steve read David Platt's book Radical this past year and it was really powerful (I have only heard snips that Steve read aloud to me but hope to read it in full soon).  We also heard David speak at the Desiring God conference this past fall (via the online recording).

This morning Steve and I (and Caleb until he got bored of it and went off to play trucks) listened to a recent talk in which David Platt interviews Katie Davis.  It really rocked our hearts.  I would encourage you to take the time to listen to it - it is a touching and astonishing story.  We really enjoyed it, anyhow.




I hope you enjoy it, as we did!

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

a beautiful adoption story

My friend Tara shared this link on facebook recently:



Have you ever thought of it before that way?  If you are a believer, Jesus adopted you.
We have been reading Russell Moore's book Adopted for Life and I would highly recommend it (weather you are considering adopting or not).  It is incredible the parallels adopting a child into your home has with being a child of God. It's incredible how much adoption is all over the Bible too, when you stop to notice.